Ik heb een embedded code en als ik die plaats op mijn website, dan begint het ook direct. Hoe kan ik de code aanpassen dat het stukje video pas begint als er op wordt geklikt?

Hieronder de code:
<object width="305" height="235" id="flowplayer" data="http://rotterdam.raadsinformatie.nl/shared/js/flowplayer/flowplayer.commercial-3.1.5.swf?0.45915264269259337" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"><param name="movie" value="http://rotterdam.raadsinformatie.nl/shared/js/flowplayer/flowplayer.commercial-3.1.5.swf?0.45915264269259337" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="flashvars" value='config={"key":"#@bce7bb2335a2cce9f43","cont extMenu": [{"Powered by NotuBiz": "function()"},"-"],"clip":{"url":"Rotterdam/bestanden/S_23.02.2011_NC_Rotterdam_CieEHMV.flv","provider": "rtmp","start":4657.00},"plugins":{"rtmp":{"url":" flowplayer.rtmp-3.1.3.swf","netConnectionUrl":"rtmp://flash2.notubiz.nl/nbvod"},"controls":{"url":"http://rotterdam.raadsinformatie.nl/shared/js/flowplayer/flowplayer.controls-3.1.0.swf","height":20,"fullscreen":false,"tooltip Color":"#456","tooltips":{"buttons":true,"pause":" Pauzeren","play":"Afspelen","fullscreen":"Volledig Scherm","fullscreenExit":"Terug naar normaal formaat","mute":"Geluid uit","unmute":"Geluid terug aan"},"backgroundGradient":[0,0],"background":"#000000","timeColor":"#FFFFFF","scr ubber":true}},"logo":{"url":"http://www.notubiz.nl/shared/img/flowplayer_NBLOGO.png","top":20,"right":20,"opacit y":1,"fullscreenOnly":true,"displaytime":0,"linkUr l":"http://www.notubiz.nl"}}' /></object>

Alvast mijn dank,
Jerry